You are a civilian to the Military.
DJ doesn’t call me a civilian, I don’t call myself a civilian. I am a dependent! But damn straight I am not going to cross the line as to say I am in the Military, or have a Military job, or better yet act like I can be above anyone else who is of a lower rank than my Husband, or their S/O.
Our Military ID dependent cards say civilian!
Get it straight that in all reality you are a civilian. Yes your life is tougher and more demanding than a civilian Wife’s but you need to be sure that you relaize all us S/Os are on the same playing field. No one is above the other. Because like our man being in different stages in the Military, we are all in different stages of being an S/O and have been where others are now.
So stop getting all butt hurt over a simple statement about how you are a civilian because you are. And don’t come at me saying but my Marriage is different than a civilian’s…I know that, trust me. But take a step back and act the way a dependent should act, because it reflects onto your Military man.
Girlfriends and Fiancees I give big props to you because you are going through this without being recognized that you exist to the Military. you stand behind, support and love your man just like the Wives do. You go through Boot Camps, Schooling, Deployments as well. So stay strong and remember don’t become ignorant when you take the next steps!
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